Idk man, if you’re constantly complaining about how terrible guys are and how it’s so impossible to find nice ones maybe you should stop looking so hard?? Same goes for guys complaining about girls. I never understood how people could get so caught up in bad relationships and in the midst of crying about it just keep going back to the same type of person. Nice people are not that hard to tell from bad and if you’re stupid enough to keep associating yourself with the people who make you miserable I think you deserve part of the blame for it, if not all the blame.